Relationship Assessment

Discover Your Love Language and Transform Your Relationships

Ever wonder why some gestures mean more to you than others?

Take our love language test based on Dr. Gary Chapman's proven framework. Discover how you naturally express love and what makes you feel most loved in return.

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How to discover your love language

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Answer from the heart

Respond to relationship scenarios honestly. Think about what truly makes you feel loved and appreciated by your partner or loved ones.

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Get your love profile

Receive your personalized love language ranking showing your primary and secondary love languages with detailed insights.

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Strengthen your bonds

Use your insights to communicate love more effectively and understand what your partner needs to feel truly cherished.

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Why take our love language test?

Understanding love languages is the key to building deeper, more fulfilling relationships with everyone in your life.

Based on proven research

Our test is built on Dr. Gary Chapman's groundbreaking Five Love Languages framework, used by millions of couples worldwide to improve their relationships.

For all relationships

Love languages apply to romantic partners, family members, friends, and even coworkers. Understand how to show love to everyone who matters to you.

Better communication

Stop the frustration of missed signals. Learn to express love in ways your partner actually receives, and communicate your own needs clearly.

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The 5 Love Languages

Everyone has a primary way they prefer to give and receive love. Discover which one speaks to your heart.

Words of Affirmation

Verbal compliments, encouragement, and expressions of appreciation.

Acts of Service

Actions that ease responsibilities and show you care through helping.

Receiving Gifts

Thoughtful presents that show you were thinking of someone special.

Quality Time

Undivided attention and meaningful moments spent together.

Physical Touch

Physical expressions of love like hugs, holding hands, and closeness.

Take the test together

Discover each other's love languages and learn to speak the language of love that resonates most with your partner.

Understand why some gestures mean more than others
Stop "love translation" errors in your relationship
Feel more appreciated and connected every day
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What you'll learn about your love style

Our comprehensive report reveals how you give and receive love in all your relationships.

Your Primary Love Language

Discover which of the five love languages speaks loudest to your heart.

Your Complete Ranking

See how all five love languages rank for you, from most to least important.

Relationship Insights

Understand how your love language affects your romantic relationships.

Communication Tips

Learn how to express your needs and understand your partner's language.

Family & Friends

Apply love languages to strengthen bonds with family and close friends.

Growth Strategies

Actionable tips to become better at giving love in all five languages.

How love languages transformed relationships

Melanie

Melanie McCarthy

Quality Time

My husband kept buying me gifts, but I just wanted him to put down his phone. After learning our love languages, everything changed. Now he plans phone-free dates!

Fabian

Fabian Norton

Words of Affirmation

I always felt unappreciated even though my wife did so much for me. Turns out I needed to hear it, not see it. Now she leaves me little notes and it fills my cup!

Taylor

Taylor Benson

Acts of Service

We were both speaking different love languages! I kept doing things for her while she wanted quality time. This test saved our relationship - we finally understand each other.

Love language test FAQ

Find answers to common questions about our love language assessment

What are the 5 love languages?
The five love languages are: Words of Affirmation (verbal expressions of love), Acts of Service (doing helpful things), Receiving Gifts (thoughtful presents), Quality Time (undivided attention), and Physical Touch (physical expressions of love).
How long does the love language test take?
The test takes approximately 5-10 minutes to complete. Take your time to answer honestly based on what truly makes you feel loved, not what you think you should choose.
Can I have more than one love language?
Yes! Most people have a primary and secondary love language. Some people may even score highly across multiple languages. Your report will show your complete ranking across all five.
Can my love language change over time?
Yes, love languages can shift based on life stages, experiences, and relationship dynamics. What made you feel loved as a newlywed might differ from what you need after having children or during stressful periods.
What if my partner has a different love language?
That's very common! The key is learning to "speak" your partner's language even if it doesn't come naturally. The test helps you understand these differences so you can consciously show love in ways that resonate with them.
Is this only for romantic relationships?
Not at all! Love languages apply to all relationships - family, friends, coworkers, and even self-love. Understanding how you give and receive love helps you connect better with everyone important in your life.
Should we take the test together?
We recommend each person takes the test individually first for honest results. Then, share and discuss your results together. Many couples find this conversation to be eye-opening and relationship-strengthening.
What's included in my love language report?
Your report includes your primary and secondary love languages, full ranking across all five, what each language means for you personally, communication tips, and practical suggestions for expressing love in each language.

Still have questions? Contact our support team

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